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Unsolicited Client Feedback

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A Sampling of Client Feedback

Disclaimer: each person is unique and will have unique results and reactions, and not every client is a good fit with every therapist (myself included). Also, therapy can be a rollercoaster: up, down, and all over the place at times.

"I'm much happier now than I've felt in years.  Literal years.  I am so thankful to be alive.  I feel restless with all the energy I've been having.  I am alive and safe.  I'm still here.  It's a miracle.  ...Thank you for being with me on this journey.  I appreciate you so much more than you could know.  Thank you Noelle."

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"[Our teenage daughter] seems to be in a very good place right now.  She has blossomed, is more confident and is even going on dates!  I think we are going to ride this out for awhile and see where it takes her.  You have been such a wonderful supportive resource for her and your efforts have definitely paid off.  We can't thank you enough!! ... Thank you again and we send you our love and gratitude!!"

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(paraphrased:) "I've been in therapy for years, and this is the most helpful therapy I've ever experienced.  ...And the art has been so helpful, too. I think the art has almost distracted me from what I'm saying which has allowed me to say things I've never said before and probably wouldn't have been able to say otherwise. I also love having a visual journal of this journey."

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"I appreciate you, Noelle.  I look forward to this [meeting with you] every week.  Work is intense and this is the highlight of my week.  It's been really helpful to talk [in session]."

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(paraphrased:) "I got the promotion at work! I know we discussed it and I had originally thought I was too young and needed more experience, but you helped me see my limiting beliefs and challenge them with "gentle compassion." Now we have to work on my anxiety because I didn't think I'd actually get the job title and raise I wanted."

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"I feel my vitality and creativity coming back.  I feel ideas coming to the forefront and I have my optimism coming back!"

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"I'm feeling in a really good, solid space with my mental health and my ability to self soothe/use the tools you've given me the last year and a half."

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"I was an overachiever and perfectionist molded by the expectations of my family [which led to a deep depression and feeling] I was a disappointment to everyone ... Art was an extension of who I was, and despite me not realizing it at first, my works were my subconscious portraying the mental state I was in. Even in the simple realistic drawing of a soda can, Noelle could sense the imbalance in my life. ... [and that] I was living my life in the extremes like a pendulum constantly swinging back and forth. There was no break for me to settle in the center, it was always black or white, no gray area. ... [Eventually,] everything finally made sense. I became aware of my emotions and started to recognize them. Then, Noelle explained the importance of “wise mind**” which is balancing both your emotional and rational sides of your mental health. For the next two months, I worked on acknowledging how I felt, mindfulness, and cultivating self compassion. Naturally, as I became more kind to myself, my once lost passion for art [and for living life] slowly came back."

**"Wise Mind" is a DBT term used to describe the wisdom found in the overlap between the "Rational Mind" and "Emotional Mind." It has its roots in Buddhist philosophies, which can be seen in the yin-yang circle symbol: the whole is made up of light AND dark swirled together; the whole is "both/and," not "either/or." And, to mindfully practice holding the tension of this truth in all areas can cultivate a deep level of wisdom, while making space for balance, non-rigidity, empathy/compassion (for self & others), acceptance, peace...

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"Over the years I have been to the most expensive psychiatrists and therapists in the world, and I'm so frustrated.  I wish they had been able to listen to me and hear me, and give me the feedback you've given me -but 20 years ago!  My life would be so different now.  ..[yet], I was [able to find a spark of inspiration and hope] on a walk outside earlier today and stopped to breathe and take in the beauty of the flowers blooming."

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"We are incredibly grateful for your impact and influence on [our son]. You were such an encouragement right from the beginning as you saw [his] gifts and helped to nurture them. You walked him through some tough moments. You are gifted with such a gentle spirit and you touched [our son's] heart. Thank you for your dedication to helping..."

Confidentiality

For legal and ethical reasons, my clients' identities are confidential and private. However, I can tell you these quotes are 100% verbatim, unless otherwise indicated. And, I can also give you this blanket information: their ages range from teens to 60s; gender expressions from cis to trans females, males, & nonbinary individuals; from a variety of socio, cultural, economic, backgrounds. They are processing and untangling generational family traumas/ wounds/ patterns, toxic diet culture messaging, body image dysmorphia, fat-phobia, ageism, attachment styles/ wounds, as well as navigating (new and existing) careers, romantic relationships, friendships, family dynamics, heart-breaks...

Where did the feedback come from?

While I do try to regularly check in with my clients (in an effort to understand what's working and what's not working, and find effective ways to be supportive), these are some of the surprise messages I have received as spontaneous emails, texts, declarations, etc. and collected over time.

 

These are all from clients who I have either been working together with for a few months, a few years... and some who are now out on their own again, and have graciously reported back.

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